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Embrace change and design the life of your dreams




Are you fearful of change?


Struggling to make a shift in your life?


Or perhaps you desire to change but don't know where to begin?


 

Change can seem daunting and overwhelming, but it is crucial for personal growth, happiness and success. It is not only about simply tolerating change, as the title says - you have to embrace it! And regardless of your approach to change - whether you like it or not, things will keep changing anyway (not necessarily in your favour!). Hence, what deeply matters is that you are not a passive observer, but you make changes happen - you are a brilliant architect of your own life. You got this in you, whether it feels like it or not.



 


In this blog, we explore the science and psychology behind ‘change’, understanding the challenges and opportunities that come with it. We'll discuss the importance of embracing change as an essential part of our journey towards success.


Let's talk about change and why it's so important


Change is an essential aspect of human development. Embracing change allows us to unlock new opportunities, experiences and personal fulfilment. One of the most fascinating aspects of change is neuroplasticity - the brain's ability to adapt, rewire itself and form new neural connections. This amazing trait shows that everyone has the ability to change, even in more than one way at the same time. This can include developing new habits, acquiring new skills or transforming our identity!





Research shows that it's important to change our identity when we start doing something new. This helps cement the changes in our self-concept and makes sure the results last. For instance, consider someone who wants to quit smoking. Rather than just focusing on resisting the urge to smoke, they should also work on changing their self-image from a "smoker" to a "non-smoker." By doing so, they are not only changing their behaviour but also altering their self-concept, making it easier to maintain the change in the long run.


Another example of this could be someone who decides to transition from a sedentary lifestyle to becoming physically active. Instead of simply incorporating exercise into their routine, they should also begin to see themselves as an "active person" or a "fitness enthusiast." This identity shift helps reinforce the new habits and creates a positive feedback loop, making it more likely that the person will stick to their new lifestyle and continue to grow and develop in other areas of their life as well.


By understanding the importance of change and the science behind it, we can harness the power of neuroplasticity and identity shifts to create lasting, positive transformations in our lives!





Our identity and self-concept based on past experiences


Our identity and self-concept are heavily influenced by our past experiences, achievements, and habits. These past influences shape our beliefs about ourselves, our abilities and our potential, which can either propel us forward or hold us back. Unfortunately, these influences from the past can sometimes lead to self-fulfilling prophecies and limiting beliefs that stop us from growing and keep us stuck in patterns that no longer serve us.


For instance, studies show that individuals with low self-esteem are more likely to engage in self-sabotaging behaviours, reinforcing their negative self-image. They may avoid taking risks, procrastinate or undermine their own efforts, all of which perpetuate the cycle of self-doubt and underachievement.


An example of this could be someone who grew up in an environment where they were constantly criticised or made feel inadequate. Because of this, they may develop a deep-seated belief that they can't be successful, which then affects how well they do in different parts of their lives, like work or personal relationships.


It is important to recognise and question these limiting beliefs if we want to break free of the limits of our past and adapt better to change. This could mean questioning how accurate our self-image is, looking for positive experiences that go against our negative beliefs or working with a professional to find and deal with the root causes of these self-imposed barriers.


By making an effort to change how we see ourselves and break free from the limits of our past, we make room for growth, where we can reach our full potential and be successful.



 


The fear of change and why no one wants to fail


Fear of change is a natural human response rooted in our evolutionary history. Our ancestors relied on what they knew and what they could predict to stay alive, which has made us naturally resistant to change. In today's world, fear of failure plays a significant role in preventing people from embracing change and taking risks that could potentially lead to growth and success.


Studies have shown that the anticipation of failure can be more distressing than the failure itself. This fear can manifest in various ways, such as avoiding new challenges due to self-doubt or procrastinating on important tasks because of the fear of making mistakes.


"Tell your heart that the fear of suffering is worse than the suffering itself. And no heart has ever suffered when it goes in search of its dream." Paulo Coelho

A person who has always wanted to start their own business but is terrified of failing and losing their investment is an example of this fear in the real world. This fear of failure keeps them from taking the leap and pursuing their entrepreneurial goals, even though they may have the skills, knowledge and passion to succeed.


Another example could be someone who wants to improve their physical fitness but is afraid of being judged by others at the gym. They may worry about not knowing how to use the equipment correctly or not being as fit as others, which prevents them from taking the first step towards a healthier lifestyle.





Overcoming this fear of change and failure is critical for personal growth and success. By acknowledging and confronting our fears, we can develop the resilience and courage necessary to face uncertainty, take risks and adapt to the ever-changing world around us. Accepting change and learning from our mistakes are important parts of a successful and happy life.





 


In conclusion, change is essential for success, and embracing it can lead to a more fulfilling and rewarding life. If you understand the psychology of change and use what you've learned, you can start a journey towards positive, long-lasting change. Ultimately - you are the creator of your own reality!


"There is no greater joy than that of feeling oneself a creator. The triumph of life is expressed by creation." H. Bergson

Whether you want to improve your career, relationships or personal well-being, Holistic Transformative Therapy can give you the guidance, support and tools you need to break free from the shadows of the past and realise the potential you already have. Remember that we all have the capacity for change, and now is a perfect time to start creating the life you desire.


If you're considering making a change in your life or need help navigating the challenges that come with change, I invite you to reach out.


Contact me today to learn more about Holistic Transformative Therapy and discover how we can work together to help you unlock your full potential to truly thrive in life!


And remember - change is your ally - and embracing it can help you build the future you want!



Love & light,


Dorota

Hypnotherapist and counsellor

Holistic Transformative Therapy


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