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Tired of Being the Strong One? Understanding Hyper-Independence
You can be the woman everyone relies on and still find it difficult to receive care. Explore hyper-independence, emotional parentification and the cost of carrying everything alone.
Oct 105 min read


When You Had to Parent Your Parent And Never Stopped
Growing up with emotionally immature parents often means learning to suppress your own needs in order to care for others. This article explores parentification, hyper-independence, trauma responses and the hidden exhaustion of becoming “the strong one” too early.
May 25 min read


Finding the Right Therapy Services in Leeds: A Genuinely Helpful Guide
Looking for the right therapy services in Leeds? Discover what truly matters when choosing a therapist from approach and experience to finding the right personal connection.
Mar 89 min read


Understanding Love Bombing: Recognising the Signs of Emotional Manipulation
There’s a moment many people know well. You’ve just met someone, and suddenly everything feels electric. The texts are constant. The connection feels intense, intimate, almost fated. You feel seen in a way you haven’t for a long time. And then the question quietly appears: Is this real connection… or am I being love bombed? What is Love Bombing? Love-bombing is a pattern of behaviour in which excessive affection, attention, praise, or declarations of love are used to rapidly
Jan 255 min read


The Hidden Parts Within Us: Why Parts Work Changes Lives
Have you ever found yourself reacting in ways that feel completely out of proportion? Saying yes when you mean no, shutting down emotionally, lashing out or feeling deep shame for things that happened long ago? It might be confusing and you might think something is wrong with you. One way to explore that experience is through the language of parts. I use parts-informed reflection to explore conflicting feelings, protective patterns and unmet needs. It offers a therapeutic fra
Jul 23, 20254 min read


Become the Hero and Main Character of Your Life
Reclaim your voice and power. Learn how to stop playing small and become the main character of your life with trauma-informed healing and therapy.
Jun 10, 20253 min read


Grieving the Mother You Never Had (But Deserved)
This topic may bring up a lot. Read at your own pace, pause when you need and consider what support would help you feel grounded. Early caregiving can influence how we experience care and closeness. It is one part of a much larger story that includes other relationships and later experiences. Your relationship with your mother may have mattered deeply without determining everything about you or your future. And yet, we don’t talk enough about the grief that can come with moth
May 3, 20255 min read


Feeling Attracted or Needy towards Your Therapist - is it Healthy?
Have you ever found yourself craving your therapist’s approval, feeling extra sensitive to their words or even feeling a strange pull towards them? You’re not alone. Strong feelings towards a therapist can have several meanings. Transference is one way of understanding how expectations and feelings from other relationships may enter therapy. Not every attachment or attraction is maternal transference. But is it healthy? Let’s talk about it. What Is Maternal Transference? Mate
Mar 30, 20253 min read


Healing Core Childhood Wounds: A Path to Wholeness
What Are Core Childhood Wounds? “Childhood wounds” is one way of describing the emotional impact of early experiences and unmet needs. It is a reflective metaphor, rather than a medical diagnosis or a fixed scientific classification. You might recognise some of the themes below, find that several overlap or prefer different language altogether. "I am unlovable." "I am not enough." "I am powerless." Early experiences can be one influence on how you relate to yourself and other
Oct 16, 20244 min read


Healing the Mother Wound by Re-mothering Yourself
This article will teach you the signs of the mother wounds and explain how you can heal it.
May 31, 20244 min read
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