If you’re struggling to stay present and constantly drift between guilt about the past and anxiety about the future, there’s a reason. This article explores how childhood conditioning shapes your nervous system, why “being” feels unsafe, and how you can finally feel grounded, calm and connected to the present moment.

Feeling constantly on edge can be tiring. You might notice tension, worry or difficulty settling. Those experiences can have different causes; they do not establish that your nervous system is damaged or that a particular trauma has occurred. What might help when you feel on edge? There is room to explore what supports you without trying to force yourself into a particular state. It is crucial that you realise that trauma, stress and healing are multifaceted processes. There’